Jacob Allinson Debenham

2007 - 2007
LocationWinsford, Cheshire
Age0
Cause of DeathStill Birth
Date of Birth05/08/2007
Date of Death05/08/2007
Visitors2,146 since 07/08/2007
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Jacob Allinson Debenham - born an angel at 18.30 on Sunday 5th August 2007.

Our little man was taken away too soon at 26 weeks gestation. His picture has been added to this
site - he is so gorgeous.

He had been poorly for quite a few weeks from his 20 weeks scan and passed away by himself on Friday
3rd August and born an angel on Sunday 5th August. Jacob was a fighter right from the start but the
fight became too much for him and he decided to become an angel.

He will be greatly missed as he was a longed for son for Steph and Matt and grandson of Carol, David
and Helen.

Jacob will be looked after by his grandad (Arthur) and his guinea-pig (Ginger) as he passed away a
day later!

Jacobs funeral was beautiful and held on Wednesday 22nd August at Crewe Cemetary. His songs have
been attached to this website, they mean so much to all his family and friends. A picture of his
headstone has also been added to this site.

Goodbye our little man, thank you for being our beautiful son, sweet dreams - don't cause too much
mischief in Heaven.

Lots of love forever

Mummy and Dad xx


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Thinking of you all

Wanting to let you know that I am thinking of you and Jacob.
Your son will be missed and your arms will feel empty but he will know that we all loved him so much. I hope you know that we love you both too.
Take care of each other xx

Helen Felton (Cousin) August 18, 2007

A little message for Steph, Matt and Jacob

Just wanted to let you know:

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way.

Take care Steph and Matt and lots of love to you Jacob from your Auntie, Uncle and Cousin

Bev

Bev (Little Sis to Mummy) August 15, 2007

Message for jacob

I see the moon and the moon sees me,
The moon sees the somebody I want to see,
God bless the moon and god bless me,
God bless the somebody that I want to see.


We will look at the moon and think of you jacobxxxx

Tony (Aunty and Uncle to Mummy) August 12, 2007

Steph, Matt - our thoughts are with you, please take care. Love to you and your little man.
xxxx

Jilly (Friend) August 12, 2007

Dear Steph and Matt

Just wanted to let you know that our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Take care

Love

Jacqui, Allan and Cameron

Jacqui Amp Allan Scott (Sister) August 11, 2007

Steph & Matt
Thinking of you lots at this time xx
You are a shining beacon for Jacob, he is a very blessed little soul,
Take Care &
Lots of Love
Angiex

Angie S (Friend) August 10, 2007

My thoughts are with you both at this terrible time. I can't even begin to imagine what you are both going through - I know Jacob was a much wanted son for you both.

Take care and comfort from each other,
lots of love,
Rozx

Roz Blake (Friend) August 10, 2007

I thought of you and closed my eyes and prayed to god today,
I asked what makes a mother and I know I heard him say,
A mother has a baby this we know is true,
but god can you be a mother when your baby's not with you?

Yes you can, came his reply with confidence in his voice,
I give so many women babies, when they leave it's not there choice,
some I send for a lifetime, and others for a day,
and some I send to feel your womb but theres no need to stay.

I just dont understand this god, I want my baby here,
he took a breath and cleared his throat and then I saw a tear,
I wish I could show you what your child is doing today,
if you could see your child smile with other children and say,
we go on earth to learn our lessons of love and life and fear,
my mummy loved me so much I got to come straight here.

I feel so lucky to have a mum who has so much love for me,
I learned my lessons very quick, my mummy set me free,
I miss my mummy oh so much but I visit her each day,
when she goes to sleep on her pillows, this is where I lay,
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek and whisper in her ear,
mummy dont be sad today im your baby and im here.

so you see dear sweet one, your children are ok,
your babies are here in my home and this is where they'll stay,
they'll wait for you with me until your lessons are through,
and on the day that you come home they'll be at the gates for you.

so you see what makes a mother, its the feeling in your heart,
its the love you had so much of right from the very start,
though some on earth may not realise until their time is done
remember all the love you have and know that you are
a special mum................

Niki Ross (Friend) August 9, 2007

Baby Jacob

Dear Steph and Matt

My thoughts are with both of you at this very sad time. I hope you can take comfort from the knowledge that Jacob is now in heaven and at peace.

God be with you both.

Love Anne

Anne (Steph's Godmother) August 9, 2007

God Bless little Jacob

Steph, Matt. I have been deeply touched throughout Jacobs brave battle which sadly is now lost. My heart goes out to you all. Take one day at a time.
Thinking of you.

Vicky xx

Vicky Nairn (Colleague) August 8, 2007
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