| Location | Winsford, Cheshire |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 05/08/2007 |
| Date of Death | 05/08/2007 |
| Visitors | 2,138 since 07/08/2007 |
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Jacob Allinson Debenham - born an angel at 18.30 on Sunday 5th August 2007.
Our little man was taken away too soon at 26 weeks gestation. His picture has been added to this
site - he is so gorgeous.
He had been poorly for quite a few weeks from his 20 weeks scan and passed away by himself on Friday
3rd August and born an angel on Sunday 5th August. Jacob was a fighter right from the start but the
fight became too much for him and he decided to become an angel.
He will be greatly missed as he was a longed for son for Steph and Matt and grandson of Carol, David
and Helen.
Jacob will be looked after by his grandad (Arthur) and his guinea-pig (Ginger) as he passed away a
day later!
Jacobs funeral was beautiful and held on Wednesday 22nd August at Crewe Cemetary. His songs have
been attached to this website, they mean so much to all his family and friends. A picture of his
headstone has also been added to this site.
Goodbye our little man, thank you for being our beautiful son, sweet dreams - don't cause too much
mischief in Heaven.
Lots of love forever
Mummy and Dad xx
by Sandy Eakle
Sorry I didn't get to stay.
To laugh and run and play.
To be there by your side.
I'm sorry that I had to die.
God sent me down to be with you,
to make your loving heart anew.
To help you look up and see
Both God and little me.
Mommy, I wish I could stay.
Just like I heard you pray.
But, all the angels did cry
when they told little me goodbye.
God didn't take me cause He's mad.
He didn't send me to make you sad.
But to give us both a chance to be
a love so precious .. don't you see?
Up here no trouble do I see
and the pretty angels sing to me.
The streets of gold is where I play
you'll come here too, mommy, someday.
Until the day you join me here,
I'll love you mommy, dear.
Each breeze you feel and see,
brings love and a kiss from me.
Jacob
This day is remembered and quietly kept,
no words are needed,
we shall never forget,
for those we love don,t go away,
you walk beside us every day,
unseen, unheard, but always near,
so loved, so missed, so very dear.
Grandma Carol
Grandad David
Jacob
They say there is a reason,they say that time will heal,but neither time or reason,will change the way I feel.For no-one knows the heartache,that lies behind my smile,no-one knows the many times,I have broken down and cried.
I want to tell you something,so there won,t be any doubt,
you,re so wonderful to think of, but so hard to live without.
Grandma,s little star.
Tribute to Jacob
On the winds the angels came, calling out our Jacobs name.Its one year now that we had to let you go, we feel so lost we miss you so. Your in our minds day and night. You are our strengh, you are our light. We look into the sky above and say goodnight sweet Jacob and we send our love.
Grandma and Grandad.
What should have been your Birthday...
No Birthday cards to send you
for there is no address
only a beautiful garden
where you have gone to rest
our loving hearts and a gentle tear
and silent wishes that you were here
Life Is ...
Being an angel Mummy for me is
Having to wear a false face for the world because it is easier that way
Its dreading the holidays for they remind me of what i will never have
Its looking at my husband and wishing our son was in his arms
Its watching the world go on, but no longer feeling part of it
Its feeling useless as a woman to bear a child that lives
Its carrying around a lot of anger, a feeling which is now familiar
Its trying to find acceptance of his death, but finding only more questions
Its seeing reminders everywhere of what should have been
Its thinking i have no tears left to cry, then more come
Its years stretching ahead when i wont see him or hold him
Its never knowing the man he would have become or the child he was
Its imagining his face, and his first step, hearing him giggle and cry
Its all what could have been and never will be
Ask My Mum How She Is
Just read this poem and its so very true I had to put it on here. Don't think its just your mummy who will lie now - how about your Dad, Grandma and Grandad A and Grandma D little one???
Ask My Mum How She Is
My Mum, she tells a lot of lies,
She never did before.
But from now until she dies,
She'll tell a whole lot more.
Ask my Mum how she is
And because she can't explain,
She will tell a little lie
Because she can't describe the pain.
Ask my Mum how she is,
She'll say 'I'm alright.'
If that's the truth, then tell me,
why does she cry each night?
Ask my Mum how she is,
She seems to cope so well.
She didn't have a choice you see,
Nor the strength to yell.
Ask my Mum how she is,
'I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping.'
For God's sake Mum, just tell the truth,
Just say your heart is broken.
She'll love me all her life,
I loved her all of mine.
But if you ask her how she is,
She'll lie and say she's fine.
I am Here in Heaven.
I cannot hug from here.
If she lies to you don't listen,
Hug her and hold her near.
On the day we meet again,
We'll smile and I'll be bold.
I'll say, 'You're lucky to get in here, Mum,
With all the lies you told.
Dear Matt and Steph
Our thoughts and prayers have been with you these past few weeks and we were deeply saddened to hear that Jacob lost his fight. We send you all our love and are thinking of you.
Kevin and Heather
Sweet Dreams Little Jacob
Lucy and Fay
xxxx
We would have loved to have known Jacob and have had the chance to have enjoyed him as a family member. Our love to you Steph and Matt and keep strong for each other.
Love Uncle John and Aunty Doreen
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